And that is why you can never truly, purely, fall in love with another. You have never truly, purely fallen in love with your Self.
And so I tell you this: be now and forever centered upon yours Self. Look to see what you are being, doing, and having in any given moment, not that's going on with another.
It is not in the action of another, but in your re-action, that your salvation will be found.
from CONVERSATIONS WITH GOD